Growth-Oriented Therapy for adults, parents and children
Experienced psychologist in the Bay Area specializing in trauma, growth, and resilience. By combining skilled therapy with compassionate guidance, I support the emotional well-being of youth and adults- fostering meaningful, lasting change that goes beyond therapy.
Experience compassionate accountability
Empowering you to grow, embrace change, and reclaim your life.
In our sessions, we’ll move beyond generic therapy exercises and rapport building and approach is from a place of supportive healing. I’ll help you discover what works best for you and your goals. Whether you’re seeking relief from emotional overwhelm, or you’re ready to tackle life-long challenges like anxiety, self-doubt, or difficult behaviors, we’ll find a personalized path forward together.
As a parent, starting therapy for your child often comes with a mix of hope, worry, and a deep desire to see them feel safe, understood, and able to thrive. You want a therapist who will not only care deeply about your child’s growth, but also support you in finding strength, clarity, and connection along the way.
I’m not here just to listen—I’m attuned to what’s beneath the surface, reading between the lines to understand your unique needs and concerns. My approach is professional, empathetic, and deeply human, allowing for a space where real change can happen. Schedule your free 15-minute consultation today.
Your partner in therapy
Hi, I’m Dr. Brett Gaynor
I’m Dr. Brett Gaynor, a clinical psychologist in Berkeley, California dedicated to helping youth, their parents and adults experience meaningful change through authentic connection. My approach is centered on deep, lasting transformation, offering expert guidance in a safe, trusting environment where individuals can uncover their inner strength, navigate challenges, and begin their path towards increased resilience.
Whether you’re an overwhelmed parent seeking support with your child, or an individual looking to make sense of current conflicts or past traumas, my role is to guide you with compassion and expertise. I view each person as the protagonist of their own story, with the power to create positive change. My goal is to ground and partner with you, whether through one-on-one work or by strengthening the relationship between parent and child, to achieve growth that lasts beyond therapy.
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When I’m not in the therapy room, you can find me traveling, in a independent bookstore far too long, or chasing my toddler around practicing the self-regulation I practice with clients.
I’m a lifelong Bay Area native who studied acting seriously until age 16, and I still tend to think in unfolding storylines especially during CAL football games, where I keep hoping for a different ending especially during CAL football games, where I keep hoping for a different ending. (I’ve been character-building through near wins since en utero).
I love all things water-related, most often underwater (scuba diving), like hiking in theory more than in reality, and resonate deeply with all things mid-century. While I once fought NPR on every high school car ride, I now cherish it. If it’s under 75 degrees, expect me in a sweater—no matter the season.
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Doctorate in clinical psychology (Psy.D.) - emphasis in child psychology
Doctoral research and scientific training in areas of Adult Attachment; Child attachment; Trauma; Parent-child relationships- intergenerational trauma
Graduate Specialized Psychological Testing & Assessment training in children; children on spectrum of special education to giftedness; attachment.
EMDR Training for Children:
Intensive Sandtray Specialist; Chronic Shame in Children; Parent, Child and Attachment; Complex Trauma and Dissociation
Theraplay Training
EMDR Training for Adults:
Basic and Advanced Training (Levels 1 & 2)
Internal Family Systems
Certified training in attachment-based child-parent work, EMDR, and IFS isn’t just a credential—it’s a foundation for creating a therapeutic space where clients can feel truly safe, seen, and confident in the process of healing.
My philosophy & approach
Healing is about long-term growth.
We’re not here to make quick fixes. Therapy is both a process and relationship. Together, we’ll build a partnership grounded in trust and attunement. You’ll feel personally connected to me, knowing that I’m truly invested in your well-being. I offer high-touch care that’s tailored specifically to your needs, creating a human-centered experience where you’re seen, heard, and understood in a way that feels real—no cookie-cutter approaches here.
Working with Children & Parents as Individuals and as a Pair
I work with both parents and children (5-18 years) as individuals and as a unit, addressing the complexities of the parent-child relationship with empathy and versatility. This holistic approach allows for meaningful change and the opportunity for the child and parent to feel supported, seen, and empowered.
Availability for Speaking & Podcasts
For hosts looking for a grounded, down-to-earth voice who makes complex psychological ideas feel human, relevant, and real. I’m excited for opportunities to speak and join podcast conversations that explore the intersections of story, science, and healing—where nuance, clinical depth, and evidence-based insight meet real-world clarity and curiosity.
I offer specialized insight on attachment, and child therapy, sharing expertise to enhance understanding and client outcomes based on trauma-informed care and attachment dynamics, fostering meaningful discussions on healing and growth.
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You’re in the right place
You’re in the right place if you’re seeking clarity, meaningful change, and a therapist who truly listens. Let’s take the first step together—book your free 15-minute consultation today.